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Dear Advice Girl,
I have a friend named Sami. Lately I’ve been saying she’s a lesbian and I think everyone’s on my side.
Last year she was teaching me a gymnastics trick at her house, and she kept touching my waist and arms and hugging me. I also just found out that last year Sami gave my friend a piggyback ride and wouldn’t let her down! Ewww!!!!! She’s never had a crush or a boyfriend!
Every time I ask her if she's a lesbian, she blows me off. She’s about to lose all her friends and she doesn’t even realize it. What's her problem?
Signed,
Michelle
Dear Michelle,
What’s your problem?! Her sexuality is none of your business. The fact that you’re turning it into a soap opera is immature and just plain cruel.
If you don’t like her, then don’t hang out with her – but don’t go around talking about her behind her back. Even if your suspicions are right, it’s still dirty gossip. You should be ashamed of yourself for spreading it around.
Love,
The Advice Girl
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rocky_freak, 15, Georgetown, IN