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The new prom rules!

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   Loyal Readers

Dear Loyal Readers,

Prom night has come a long way from teased-out bangs, ruffled dresses and spiking the punch.



So the folks here at eSPIN asked nearly 1,000 teens to come up with some new prom rules for 2007. Here's what you told us:

• Almost all of you (93%) think that guys should open the car door for their dates, and most (59%) think that the guy should foot the bill for prom tickets, no matter who asked whom.

• Speaking of that, most of you (61%) think that the guy should always ask the girl to prom, or at least that a girl asking a guy is still kind of weird.

• Y'all are so open-minded. Most of you (80%) think same-sex couples should be allowed at prom, and most (68%) think it’s totally fine to go to prom by yourself.

• Most girls want to wear a "glamorous" dress (56%) to prom. Boys don't care about all that - they just want their dates to wear one that's "sexy" (56%) (shocker).

• Girls should get their dresses before they even get a date. Start looking for a dress 2 months before prom (36%) and a date one month after that (33%).

• If you can’t get a date, just go by yourself (41%) - it beats going with someone you don’t know that well (31%) or skipping prom altogether (15%).

• Cheap wins out over spensy this year. $200 is the right amount for both girls (18%) and guys (22%) to spend on their prom looks.

• 68% of you say that your folks are responsible for coughing up at least half of your prom expenses.

• Who says you boys aren’t romantic? 59% of you think it’s proper to dance all of the slow songs with you dates. (Only 40% of the girls agree.)

• In the shocker of the year category, guys say that prom is a perfect night to have sex for the first time (65%). Girls aren’t so sure (38%). Plus, most girls (60%) don't feel more pressure to have sex just 'cause it’s prom. So good luck with that, guys.

Got it? Good. Now get out there and have fun, kids. And if you have any new rules you want to add (or you just want to trash the ones that are already up here), make sure you leave a comment.

 

Love,
   The Advice Girl


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yay prom!
justxkissxmexo, 16, Puposky, MN
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prom! its prom!!!! time for prom!!!!!
moobaer1, 14, Woodbury, CT
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I agree
ilikedaisies, 14, Shreveport, LA
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wow ok?
moobaer1, 14, Woodbury, CT
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Im not that into prom but I do go because its like a special night for me and my guy. We both hate dressing up but so far its actually been perfect. We now don't go to any other dances but Prom. Though it is the only time we actually dance together and he may not admit to it but I know that he likes it to just by how he acts and holds me in his arms.
richgirl06, 19, Gassaway, WV
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prom is just a night to have fun, and live life.
anonymous
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i dont care bout proms u will never see me in those at all
dakurls191, 14, Philadelphia, PA
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yeah i still dont get wats the huge deal about prom. there are already like cojillian other dances throughout the year.
xxgabavampxx, 14, Tampa, FL
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ugh, why does everyone fuss about prom???? I'd never go no matter what
total_jen, 14, Australia
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I think that prom night is the perfect night for sex for yhe first time because you are now an adult and its a way to celebrate!!
1hello2there34, 18, Kingston, ON

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