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What should I do when pervs talk to me?

Dear Advice Girl,

My friends, family and random strangers tell me that I'm pretty. But then some guys ask me for nudes or things like that, and it can get really annoying.

I don't mind being called "pretty," but I don't want pervs to talk to me! What should I do about it???

Signed,
   Creeped Out

Dear Creeped Out,

This is an issue that lots of girls face: you want guys to think you’re hot, but not those guys. You just want them to leave you alone.

When you get unwanted attention, don’t be afraid to be rude. If it happens online, then block the guy and report him. (You don’t need to explain yourself or say good-bye.) If it happens in person, then just walk away.

If he does anything that makes you extra-uncomfortable (like if he bullies or tries to touch you), tell an adult. By "adult," I mean your mom, your neighbor or anyone else who's nearby - even that nice-looking shopper in aisle 4. You can even call the police (or at least threaten to call them) just to make it ultra-clear that his behavior's not acceptable.

Not to freak you out, but creeps are everywhere. So always carry your cell phone and don't go anywhere alone without telling someone where you're headed. (Some girls learn self-defense, which isn’t a bad idea - even if you never bust out any moves, you’ll feel safer knowing you could.)

Bottom line: be alert, and be smart. But don't quit being your awesome self just because some guys are too lame to respect you for it.

 

Love,
   The Advice Girl


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ok creeped out. first off. why the eff are you talking to guys who want naked pics of you? cause most people don't lol. don't talk to them. delete their numbers or whatever. block them. change your number. and if that doesn't help then turn them in! :D
these_girls, 17, Farmington, NM
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Well first of all you should ignore them . If they don't leave you alone eighter give mortal combat to ass! Or tell a friend or 2 maybe a boyfriend . xD
rawr_zombie, 13, San Antonio, TX
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Creeps are so pathetic, it's not even funny. xD Ignore 'em, and they'll eventually go away, like the article says. I'm really starting to like reading these things. x3
kijonaia, 15, Villa Ridge, MO
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omigod i know! theyre this really pervy guy at my school who always like talks about my boobs and like tries to grab my ass. ive yelled at him multiple times to stop and when he didnt i told the school counselor. now i feel much more comfortable and just dont go near him(:
calbabe96, 14, Sacramento, CA
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ignore them dont talk to them by doing that your giving them satisfaction
deadrosesxx, 14, Brooklyn, NY
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i just walk away wile rolling my eyes but make shure they see the eye roll
emmyfigureskates, 19, Marion, TX
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If you dont want guys to say ''you have the nicest rack ive ever seen'' then dont wear the shirt with so much Cleve,or you you can say ''thanks'' and keep on walking
gavinsthe1, 16, Terre Haute, IN
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yea i forgot kick him in the nuts and run kicking him in the nuts will give u alot of run time
lazyall21, 20, Bridgeport, CT
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yea ppl/ creeps will come at u be cause ur a girl just keep ur heap up and say no go away cause at the end of the day thats the only thing u can do
lazyall21, 20, Bridgeport, CT
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I kicked the living shit outt of a boy cos he sent me a txt with a pic of him... Go me! x.o
kimikillz, 15, United Kingdom

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