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What should I do when pervs talk to me?

Dear Advice Girl,

My friends, family and random strangers tell me that I'm pretty. But then some guys ask me for nudes or things like that, and it can get really annoying.

I don't mind being called "pretty," but I don't want pervs to talk to me! What should I do about it???

Signed,
   Creeped Out

Dear Creeped Out,

This is an issue that lots of girls face: you want guys to think you’re hot, but not those guys. You just want them to leave you alone.

When you get unwanted attention, don’t be afraid to be rude. If it happens online, then block the guy and report him. (You don’t need to explain yourself or say good-bye.) If it happens in person, then just walk away.

If he does anything that makes you extra-uncomfortable (like if he bullies or tries to touch you), tell an adult. By "adult," I mean your mom, your neighbor or anyone else who's nearby - even that nice-looking shopper in aisle 4. You can even call the police (or at least threaten to call them) just to make it ultra-clear that his behavior's not acceptable.

Not to freak you out, but creeps are everywhere. So always carry your cell phone and don't go anywhere alone without telling someone where you're headed. (Some girls learn self-defense, which isn’t a bad idea - even if you never bust out any moves, you’ll feel safer knowing you could.)

Bottom line: be alert, and be smart. But don't quit being your awesome self just because some guys are too lame to respect you for it.

 

Love,
   The Advice Girl


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ahhhhh just say "not legal!" haha that swhat i do like on stickam there are so many pervsss there its crazy
originalpaperdoll, 16, Las Vegas, NV
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i knw alot of ppl ask me how old im i cuz i DNT look my age at all n wwen they find out my age they r lik oh bt then i still catch them stariin bt if they do morr than stare ima kick there asss my self no need 4 other ppl 2 do it 4 mehh lol
_lil_freak_, 15, Odessa, TX
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that happens to me all the time guys look at me diffrent because i look older for my age but thats what i have four older brothers for
sexangel456, 15, Brentwood, TN
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One time at a fair me and my friend were on a ride and this old guy and his kid had to come on the ride. He kept staring at me and smieling. I was really freaked out, but then i felt his foot rube aginst mine. I tried to pull my foot away but he wouldnt take his foot off me. As soon as the ride was over i grabed my friend and ran like hell! I told her everything and she agreed he was a old perv! But the part that i hate is he got pleasure out of staring and touching me. I hate pervs like that.
anonymous
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I 've had weird old guys folowing me and my friend WE went inside a store and pretended an older woman was our mom (she just went with it)
anonymous
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this happens to me all the time it makes me feel up set because i really liked the guy and we were close and he started wanteding pics and sex and touching i really like/liked him it drives me crazy
monkeyluv777, 14, Floral City, FL
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Don't worry it happens to everyone.
anonymous
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it happened with me lik a 100 times
cute_nikky, 13, India
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it happent 2 everyone
bellaluvsbooks, 14, Campbellsport, WI
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Screen the people you talk to. don't show them pictures that are consider revealing, just face shots they ask for body pics or nudes say i don't have any. get to know them pick up on the game they are playing. keep talking until you find out what they want. they will play off till they think your comfortable then bam out with the nudes and sex talk. dont give your number out to anyone unless you can trust them.
conker_pimp790, 20, New Baltimore, MI

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